3/18/2022
pure sarcasm of course.....
The kids did not call again today. They did try calling yesterday but I missed the call by about 10 seconds and immediately tried calling back. No answer yesterday and no response or acknowledgement of my attempt. I wasn't really sure if they would call today or not but obviously it would be nice since its now been 5 days I think since I've talked with them. I even wrote to the ex a couple hours before the kids bedtime to let her know I was available for the remainder of the day. That message was ignored for well over an hour even though she was online. She never acknowledged that message either and of course never allowed the kids to call.
The saddest part to all of this, is that she seems to think she is still a good person. When I complain to her about her limiting my interactions with the kids, she straight up tells me that it could be a lot worse. She has no legal requirements for minimum contact. Shes right, but she has a responsibility to her children and she seems to think its more important to maintain her power and control over me than it is to allow her kids to have a good relationship with their father.
I'm sure she views her action as some sort of punishment for me..... I wasn't available the moment the kids called yesterday so therefore its her job to teach me a lesson. Fine, if I were a dirt bag and avoided my kids, maybe that would be her role. but when my effort is to always gain more contact with them, this isn't a very valid stance. The other sad part, is that if she is trying to punish me, she never tells me about the problem or how to fix it. She changes the rules and expectations at her will and never shares a reason why. Again, if I messed up and she said... based on what you just did, I'm limiting your contact for one week.... i would at least know what to avoid doing next time. She would never do this because she would never put it in writing that shes leveraging the kids against me.
I hope I can keep this going on a daily basis. since this is only the 5th or 6th post there is no history to show and it probably just seems like I'm a whinny little bitch.... but i don't think it will take very long to prove my point.
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